Forgiveness or Indulgence? 11-9-08
November 9th, 2008There is a common misconception that forgiveness means you overlook wrongdoing by others; for example, those who are opposed to “harsh” sentences for sexual predators, murderers, and the like, will often tell us that Jesus told us to turn the other cheek and forgive – meaning that in effect we should not punish the criminal. This kind of thinking has moved our system of justice from a punishment-centered one to a rehabilitation-centered one. As a consequence, we now have prisons bursting at their seams, rising costs per inmate (as the quality of “service” is demanded to increase), and recidivism rates that are just plain ludicrous. Our inmates have a more comfortable lifestyle that most of the population of the world: there are many inmates who, in addition to free food, shelter, and medical care, are also able to earn tax free income that dwarfs the average pay throughout much of the world. Frankly, which are you more afraid of: being sent to an American prison or residing in North Korea? In terms of the death penalty, the US executed forty-two in 2007, while China executed 470 (confirmed, while reports are that the true figure could have been as high as 8,000) – at least some of whom were political dissidents. The US has definitely embraced a doctrine of leniency.
Within the church, this kind of thinking leads us to tolerate numerous outrageous doctrines and behaviors. Some things are fairly subtle, such as statements or questions raised during Bible classes that drift towards unhealthy ideologies – if they are challenged, the person challenging the wrong ideas is often accused of being aggressive or unchristian. Other things are more blatant, such as the person who carries out adulterous behaviors but is never dealt with because the other members of the church are trying to “be forgiving” and treat with the person in love. Overlooking sin is not forgiveness, it is indulgence – and it is condemned in the Bible!
I have written you in my letter not to associate with sexually immoral people— not at all meaning the people of this world who are immoral, or the greedy and swindlers, or idolaters. In that case you would have to leave this world. But now I am writing you that you must not associate with anyone who calls himself a brother but is sexually immoral or greedy, an idolater or a slanderer, a drunkard or a swindler. With such a man do not even eat. What business is it of mine to judge those outside the church? Are you not to judge those inside? God will judge those outside. “Expel the wicked man from among you.” (I Corinthians 5:9-13 NIV)
Warn a divisive person once, and then warn him a second time. After that, have nothing to do with him. You may be sure that such a man is warped and sinful; he is self-condemned. (Titus 3:10-11 NIV)
But there were also false prophets among the people, just as there will be false teachers among you. They will secretly introduce destructive heresies, even denying the sovereign Lord who bought them—bringing swift destruction on themselves. Many will follow their shameful ways and will bring the way of truth into disrepute. In their greed these teachers will exploit you with stories they have made up. Their condemnation has long been hanging over them, and their destruction has not been sleeping. (II Peter 2:1-3 NIV)
This is serious business! We are supposed to expel the wicked man from our assembly! Not kindly exhort him; not ask him gently to try being a little less wicked; not, please keep it quiet and out of view. We are suppose to warn a divisive person twice, and then have “nothing to do with him”. What happened to forgiving your brother however many times he needs it? Well, that is itself a flawed theology! Jesus didn’t say to forgive him however many times he needs it; in the eighteenth chapter of Matthew, it is pretty clear that the forgiveness came as a result of the repentance of the transgressor.
Clearly, forgiveness that is the result of repentance is powerful, binding both the forgiven and the forgiver in love; forgiveness that comes without repentance simply indulges the transgressor, rewarding bad behavior and allowing them to proceed unchecked towards destruction. This should be an easy concept for the Christian. After all, God’s forgiveness is open to all to receive, but only through repentance and atonement. God is willing to forgive sinners who repent, but he simply refuses to indulge sinners who want to keep sinning. And he wants us to forgive, but never to indulge, sin.
-Charles Peterson